This is not a friends only journal. It is open to anyone and everyone who would like to read or friend it.
However, it contains information that you may not want to read, about the joys and pains of trying to find a partner and friends in the BDSM lifestyle. It may contain rants, and complaints, and frank discussions of sex and power exchange. There may also be some interesting and rewarding information mixed in.
I don't write this for you - and I don't expect you to read it, but if you choose to, I welcome you. Many people I know are loking for the one for them, and many are trying to figure out how to navigate this whole scene. I've been there and I am still there, many years later, and I have found some great friends and support on-line. I hope that I can give a little of that back.